Gotta move, gotta move on~
Gotta move, gotta move on~
Sometimes I wonder if anyone would notice if I just dropped off the face of the [digital] planet, and if they’d wonder if anything “bad” had happened.
No one ever wonders if something good happened. It’s always “I hope nothing bad happened.” Curious, isn’t it? We’ll see.
This should have hundreds of thousands of notes. But, it doesn’t, and it won’t, because it’s an inconvenient truth.
Bunny Doodle. Her tail will be a meat bun… Meatbunny..
Usually not a fan of hyper-cute things, but this is great. Also, excellent pun, my dear. Haha.
Not even close, truth be told.
She’s cool, cocky, confident, and dominating.
I’m anxious, unsure, insecure, and submissive.
I’m not sure if me making her almost the polar opposite of myself was subconsciously intentional or not, but there you go.
WELL, That was a nice ~12 hours without power. Thanks, random, violent thunderstorms!
Ah, the Sunshine State!
are you blind? it’s your television, your favourite tv shows, your movies, your books, your fucking history text books. how hard is it? oh and also the fact that I’ve been trying to get this shit across that men are upset because they have to live up to these “manly” standards. Where are those standards coming form? Oh yeah! the patriarchy. men. men. men men men men men and men. we feminsts DO NOT like that. fuck.
and here. first thing I found. fuck you learn that patriarchy exists in school. did you go to school? no? clearly not.
>link to feminist website
So no, she can’t.
But I can:
"Patriarchy is a multidimensional condition of power and status. Whyte’s 1978 comprehensive study examined 52 indicators of patriarchy, which corresponded to 10 relatively independent dimensions. The ten dimensions are:
- lack of property control by women
- lack of power of women in kinship contexts
- low value placed on the lives of women
- low value placed on the labor of women
- lack of domestic authority of women
- absence of ritualized female solidarity
- absence of control over women’s marital and sexual lives
- absence of ritualized fear of women
- lack of male-female joint participation in warfare, work, and community decision making
- lack of women’s indirect influence on decision making
There are undeniably societies in the world today that are patriarchies. A place like Saudi Arabia comes to mind as well as institutions like the Catholic Church in which women are not entirely excluded (i.e., nuns) but are kept from positions of real power (i.e., the priesthood and the papacy).
However, at least in the United States…
- women can (easily) control property: they can rent apartments, buy a house or land, own a business, and inherit and/or will their property to others.
- there are plenty of “housewives”/stay-at-home mothers, but women are typically expected to find a job and work for a living in the same way that men are, and there is no wage gap between male and female workers.
- though it’s hard to say given that domestic violence stories focus almost solely on male-on-female violence, I might argue that women often have more domestic authority than men; for example, they have more control of their family’s disposable income and are far more likely to get custody of their children in case of a divorce.
- "absence of ritualized female solidarity" - well, I think we know that’s not applicable to the US, if Tumblr is any indication.
- aside from states that have made abortion difficult to obtain, women control their own bodies and sexuality, and aside from where it is an issue of LGBT+ equality, women have the power to marry (and divorce) whom they choose, when they choose.
- Many industries (and certainly most offices that I’ve seen) are relatively evenly balanced between men and women. As for “community decision making,” women are more likely to vote than men, so while it would be nice to have more women running for office, women nevertheless have more of a say in who gets elected.
I realize I didn’t refute or address all ten points. Ultimately,however, women have the choice to wear the kinds of clothes they like; vote; pursue almost any career; drive a car; live where and with whom they want to; have children (or not); get married (or not); cut their hair; have sex with whom they choose, etc. While many people may criticize them for making what they deem “incorrect” or “inappropriate” choices, no patriarch or patriarchal authority is going to punish women for making them.
I found a thing.
The thing you found is a brilliant thing.
We are also talking about someone who needs a hundred and fifty thousand dollars and several years to make several youtube videos of herself talking